it's killing us

or at least me.

those you effect, those you care about, those you hate, those you neglect, those you love, those you ignore, all make up who you are. every single one of them. THEY define who you are, THEY define what values you put forth in your life, and what values mean absolutely nothing to you. You can learn a lot about someone by observing his friends, but you can learn the most about someone by observing his enemies. That is what truly defines a person. Not the people he accepts, but those he ignores. They define who a person is, and who a person will forever be.
some things never change.
who are your friends?

Whats a friend? According to the dictionary, a 'friend' is someone who.. lifts you up in times of need and a person who is in good terms with you. There are more, but these are the most prevalent. we need friends more than ever, yet more and more, the initial truth wears out and we lose friends, because we're busy, but i think it's just an excuse.

Every once in a while, there's someone who you'll come across who says..they're busy. Most of the time that is probably true, with the amount of work and school stuff that's going on, but sometimes that isn't. What does this mean? They just don't want to talk to you? Just another lame excuse: one after the other to get you to go away and stop bothering you. Wouldn't it just be easier to say 'leave me alone?'. probably. then why don't people do that? because they feel BETTER about themselves if they make up excuses, fantasies, that they really want to help, but can't because they're too busy. what lame excuses.

how selfish. only caring how you feel.