Sometimes I think the problem that many people have is that they learn what love is like from their own families, and TV shows, where they constantly belittle each other and have those 'perfect' relationships. Love isn't the same hormonal love of your teens, of when you 'get the urge' to hook up with someone, because you 'like' them. It's powerful, but it's based on respecting each other and working together for a better future together. It's about supporting each other when times are hard and to celebrate when times are good.